My daughter Zuul is a pretty little boy.
I know this to be true because every time I take her out in public, complete strangers walk up and tell me so. Now, I am not faulting complete strangers for not knowing that my infant child is not a girl. She is not dressed in pink bows and lace after all. However, what this does is create a super ackward moment for me where I must either tell them she is a girl and go through the embarrasing ritual of them apologizing and backtracking, or I can let it slide and hope that the conversation doesn't progress to "What's his name?" In which case we are back to the whole embarrassing backtracking and apologizing.
I know that this could all be corrected if I just took her out of the house in gender identifying colors more often. However, I am not a huge fan of pink. I put her in a whole pink outfit one time when we were just sitting around the house and I just couldn't bring myself to do that to my child again.
I think the sheer look of terror on her face says it all. How could I do this to my sweet little baby girl? So, I guess I will have to keep walking the fine line between embarassing people and embarrasing myself and come to peace with the fact that my daughter zuul is a pretty little boy.
I am so with you and preparing my heart for the potential "pretty little boy" I'll have if it's a girl.
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